God has been
smiling on us a lot lately. And we all
know that when God smiles, good things happen.
Making this long
road trip to Texas gave Kurt and me time to have that delicate, yet
all-important talk about what will go into the letter he'll be sending to the
donor family. When we spoke in days past, he said he felt kind of
"stuck" on what to say. Kurt is one of those men of few words; he
measures what he says in those few words. The words that will go into this
letter contain tremendous weight--it has been difficult. I've not been able to
help him this time--this initial contact is between him and the donor family.
There are, of
course, basic guidelines that the good people of the procurement group have
given him and all recipients; nevertheless, it is such an emotional and
personal issue, those guidelines can only help so much.
So, while on our way
to Hurst, we had a little chat. I asked him how the letter was coming along. He
said he was still struggling with just what to say to strangers who truly had done something overwhelming that,
in turn, kept him alive.
My heart goes out to
him on this task.
I should have known,
however, that God would be smiling...and that good things would happen.
Before this trip, I
was determined that I was going to spend some time doing very little other than
reading some magazines. I know this sounds ridiculous, but I'm really bad at
sitting while at home, so a part of any vacation I take involves taking a new
magazine that will make me sit, relax, and read.
I shopped in earnest
for the right magazines to take. After some deliberation, I picked up one
particular magazine that I surprised myself in choosing. I read this magazine
from time to time over the past several years, but always felt that there just
wasn't that much to it. Nevertheless, this magazine traveled along with me and
was, in fact, the first one I chose to look at on the first evening of our
trip…
And God smiled.
As I settled into
bed that first night and opened the pages of this fresh magazine, something
caught my eye that I hadn't noticed until that very second. There was an
article entitled, "Dear Donor Family".
Yes indeed, God
smiled and good things happened. I read the article and was amazed at how
detailed and helpful it was. It filled
in answers to many of the questions we had. I happily shared the article with
Kurt the next evening once we had settled in. He read it; a bit later I saw at
the top of the screen where he was working on his computer the words "Dear
Donor Family".
Don't you just love
it when God smiles?
When God Smiles....
ReplyDeleteYour words have filled me with pure joy this morning... I don't know that I've thought or prayed more... Felt more connected to a countless group of folks the majority having no idea who they are.... With a goal of healing and lifting you all up through God's grace... Watching and reading from a distance my emotions have run the gamut for Kurt, you and Tom...The display of strength, courage and faith displayed has been truly like nothing I've ever been witness too.... And through your words... I've always felt your goodness and grace jumps off the page when you write... But I've watched it grow... And through all the prayers for Kurt I've felt God smile...